We all want to feel safe and secure
Owning our own home, having that roof over our head, gives not only a sense of physical stability but also financial
Often though, owning our own home remains a dream with life seeming to consistently get in the way…
There’s a school excursion that needs to be paid for
An unexpected dental bill
An emergency trip to the vet
The holiday you so desperately need
The list could go on….
As much as we try to plan there always seems to be something getting in the way…
Feeling like, no matter how much we try to do the right thing, nothing seems to change
What I’ve learned in these situations, is that I’m allowing my external environment to control how I think and feel (which is my internal environment)
This is a situation of cause and effect
I invite you to focus on changing your internal environment first (how you think and feel) and then see how your external environment changes
Move from being stuck in ’cause & effect’ to ‘causing an effect’
There may be a number of hurdles that you are trying to address in your journey to owning your own home:
- saving a deposit
- deciding where to live
- choosing a floor plan
Become the observer of your situation
See yourself as the person who has overcome the particular hurdle or hurdles
What qualities do you possess?
What decisions or small steps have you made?
Identify the gaps between who you are today and who you need to become…
Focus on becoming that person….
Relax and lean into that journey…then watch with excitement as your dreams begin to unfold and ALL that you desire comes into being….